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These Mums Are Scared For Their Transgender Kids After First "No" Same-Sex Marriage Ad Airs

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Mothers of transgender children say they are scared for their kids after viewing a new TV ad from the same-sex marriage "no" campaign that does not mention marriage, but instead targets anti-bullying programs such as Safe Schools, which help LGBTI kids.

The ad, released on Tuesday night by the Coalition For Marriage, features three mothers and claims that parents will lose the right to choose what their children are taught at school if same-sex marriage is legalised.

But the mothers of transgender children who have been helped by Safe Schools say the ad wrongly conflates same-sex marriage with gender identity and exposes their already-vulnerable children to hate.

Jo Hirst, author of The Gender Fairy and the mother of a transgender son, told BuzzFeed News "fear was my first reaction" when she saw the ad.

"It had me in tears because I knew it was coming," she said. "It's all very well for people to say, yes, we support equal marriage. But what about our kids? They're the ones being kicked. They're the ones being treated as political footballs.

"Our children have nothing to do with equal marriage. Absolutely nothing. It's gender, it's not sexuality."

Hirst, who is part of several online support groups for the parents of transgender children, said the video was being talked about by parents across Australia.

"They're all frightened," she said. "It's really misleading because the information they give is completely incorrect, but because it's been done under the guise of concerned parents, people believe it."

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The first mother in the video, Cella White, pulled her children out of Frankston High in Victoria last year as the school was part of Safe Schools.

“School told my son he can wear a dress next year if he felt like it,” White says in the video.

But on Wednesday morning, when radio 3AW's Neil Mitchell asked leading "no" campaigner Lyle Shelton, from the Australian Christian Lobby, if the dress story actually occurred, he replied: "I don't know."

The Australian Christian Lobby is one of several organisations that are part of the Coalition For Marriage, along with Marriage Alliance, the Australian Family Association and various churches.

Shelton said the video was "three mothers who have first hand experience with the so-called unsafe School Schools Coalition", and reiterated his claim that legalising same-sex marriage would lead to the program being widely introduced.

Meagan, who is part of the Parents of Gender Diverse Children (PGDC) group, told BuzzFeed News that her daughter, Evie, had recently been targeted by kids at school about being transgender.

It was the first problem at school Evie had encountered since moving schools two years ago, and happened about a week after a video making several unverified claims about the Safe Schools Coalition went hugely viral on Facebook.

"People do not understand trans kids, they're fearful...and they find it challenging to accept," Meagan said. "But they're just regular kids who want to be able to go to school without getting teased.

"It's not boys wearing dresses. It's trans girls — who are girls — wearing dresses. They like to say, 'These aren't girls wearing dresses. These are boys.' And Evie's not a boy."

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Mother-of-two Karen Walker, who is also part of PGDC, said the number of Australians with kids in school is significantly larger than the LGBTI community, and that it was an "obvious ploy" to scare people.

"It's cynical, obvious, and political," she said. "And unfortunately their politicking is affecting the lives of trans and gender diverse kids who need support and understanding.

The video also attracted significant criticism from leading "yes" group The Equality Campaign (TEC), which slammed the Coalition for Marriage as "deliberately resorting to misleading people".

"Sadly, the Australian people will now hear a daily dose of red herrings and dishonesty served up by a huge bucket of cash," said TEC executive director Tiernan Brady.

Brady said that "despite such provocation", his side of the debate remained committed to a respectful campaign of conversations.

In an email to supporters asking for donations, "no" campaigner Damien Wyld dismissed the criticism as an "immediate attack from the usual suspects".

"The marriage redefinition campaign is desperate to silence any discussion about consequences – the very discussion now underway in homes around Australia," he wrote.

Shortly after the video was released, the Australian Marriage Equality account tweeted a video of mums talking in support of same-sex marriage.

A spokesperson for the Coalition for Marriage told BuzzFeed News "the ad will run across all channels, both free to air and subscription".


Just Some Really Great Advice For Anyone Coming Out As Nonbinary

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“You’re not broken, you’re not wrong, you’re just you.”

Figuring out how to navigate your gender identity can be confusing and overwhelming — especially if you identify outside the gender binary.

Figuring out how to navigate your gender identity can be confusing and overwhelming — especially if you identify outside the gender binary.

We asked members of the BuzzFeed Community who identify as nonbinary or genderqueer to tell us what helped them stay positive while coming out to friends and family. Here's what they had to share.

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"Something that helped me become so much more comfy with my body and identity was wearing clothes I feel comfortable in. Shopping in the section of the store assigned 'women's' never felt right. The day I stepped foot in the section assigned 'men's' I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders. I am a lot more comfortable and confident and love who I am as a human."

—LJ, Facebook

"It took a really long time for me to be comfortable with where I am right now. I was born female and therefore I grew up with more traditional female clothes and ideals. For a while, I couldn't even wear more feminine clothes because it reminded me too much of my childhood and it felt wrong. I still sometimes have problems with my self-confidence and my image, but once you figure out how you want to present yourself, it's so damn comfortable. I just started college and have been going by my chosen name. I get to introduce myself as who I really am. It's the best feeling in the world."

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Australia's New Same-Sex Marriage TV Ads Have All Been Done Before

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“I learnt how a prince married a prince, and I can marry a princess!”

Australia got its first taste of what the upcoming national survey on same-sex marriage will look like this week, as the opposing campaigns released ads making their cases.

Australia got its first taste of what the upcoming national survey on same-sex marriage will look like this week, as the opposing campaigns released ads making their cases.

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Known as Prop 8, the campaign was actually to make same-sex marriage illegal again in California, following a state Supreme Court ruling earlier in 2008 that had legalised it.

This meant the "yes" and "no" sides were the reverse of what they are in Australia — people who wanted a ban on same-sex marriage voted "yes", while people who wanted to keep it legal voted "no".

The people of California voted against same-sex marriage 52-48 in the dramatic and often vitriolic campaign. It wasn't until 2013 that the US Supreme Court issued a ruling that overturned Prop 8 and meant same-sex couples could marry again in California.

One prominent ad that ran during the campaign showed a young girl handing her mum a book and saying, "Guess what I learnt in school today? I learnt how a prince married a prince, and I can marry a princess!"

"Think it's not happening?" law professor Richard Peterson told viewers. "It's already happening."

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Another ad — titled Everything To Do With Schools — again featured concerned parents, this time from Massachusetts, which became the first American state to legalise same-sex marriage, in 2004.

"After Massachusetts legalised gay marriage, our son came home and told us the school taught him that boys can marry other boys," says a mother. "He's in second grade."

Like the "no" ad in Australia, the narrator insists that same-sex marriage will lead to a change in the school curriculum.

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These Former Pentagon Leaders Say Trump's Transgender Ban "Makes No Sense"

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Regan Kibby, one of the new plaintiffs in a lawsuit to overturn Trump's order barring transgender troops' service in the military.

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Former secretaries of the US Army, Navy and Air Force threw their support behind transgender troops suing President Donald Trump for reversing the Pentagon policy allowing them to serve openly in the military on Thursday.

“President Trump’s stated rationales for reversing the policy and banning military service by transgender people make no sense,” Ray Mabus, the longest-serving Navy Secretary since World War I and a former governor of Mississippi, said in a statement supporting the lawsuit.

“They have no basis in fact and are refuted by the comprehensive analysis of relevant data and information that was carefully, thoroughly, and deliberately conducted,” Mabus continued.

The statements of support come as one group of troops suing the administration opened up a new legal front. On Thursday, the National Center for Lesbian Rights and GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders, or GLAD, filed a preliminary injunction and added two new plaintiffs to one of three lawsuits filed against Trump, Defense Secretary Jim Mattis and other Pentagon officials to date. It's the first case seeking immediate action by a judge to block, at least temporarily, the Trump administration from taking any action on the transgender service ban.

The five active-duty transgender soldiers originally listed in the plaintiff are only identified as “Jane Doe" — some of them have served as long as two decades, including tours in Iraq and Afghanistan.

“The level of support from senior military leadership speaks volumes,” NCLR legal director Shannon Minter told BuzzFeed News. “That sends a powerful message about how deeply they are concerned about the damage that is being done to the military as an institution, as well as to transgender service members.”

Thursday’s action, filed in the US District Court for the District of Columbia, adds two named plaintiffs, U.S. Naval Academy shipman Regan Kibby and Reserve Officers’ Training Corps student Dylan Kohere. The other two lawsuits are pending in Maryland and Washington State.

Reading Trump’s tweets “was painful, and I saw my future crumbling,” Kibby said in a statement, adding that the ban “ruins transgender servicemembers’ lives and ends the careers of trained, qualified members of our military for no reason other than who they are.”

Transgender troops have been allowed to serve openly since June 2016, after an exhaustive study commissioned by the Defense Department concluded that letting them serve openly would have a “minimal impact” on both military readiness and healthcare costs.

In a series of tweets last month that caught the Pentagon off guard, Trump announced that transgender troops would not be allowed to serve in the U.S. military "in any capacity," citing "tremendous medical costs and disruption."

On Tuesday, Mattis said he was establishing a panel of experts from the Pentagon and Homeland Security Department to provide recommendations on how to implement the president’s directive. In the meantime, transgender troops will continue to be allowed to serve.

The statements by former Pentagon leaders filed on Thursday, including by the former Army Deputy Surgeon General, provide new details about the extensive year-long review that led to the decision to allow transgender troops to serve openly.

The level of care that went into the Pentagon’s study “one of the most impressive decision making processes I have ever witnessed,” Minter said.

In their statements, the former service secretaries argue that beyond being a betrayal of transgender troops who are currently serving, the ban would harm the military and national security.

Former Army Secretary Eric Fanning said that forcing out skilled, trained transgender troops would create “unexpected vacancies in operational units and (require) the expensive and time-consuming recruitment and training of replacement personnel.”

There are between 1,320 and 6,630 active duty transgender individuals currently in the military, according to a Rand Corp. analysis. Other studies put that number as high as 15,000.

Former Army Deputy Surgeon General Margaret Wilmoth, who was involved in the process that led to the open service policy, also filed a statement explaining how the military decided to allow transgender troops to serve openly last year.

The year-long process was “deliberative and thoughtful, involved significant amounts of research and education, and in the end resulted in a policy that all services supported,” she said.

“We were very proud to have developed a policy that treats transgender servicemembers as the equal of their fellow servicemembers, and as soldiers, sailors, marines, cuttermen, and airmen first.”

Former Air Force Secretary Deborah Lee James declared that Trump’s ban would “harm both the military and the broader public interest,” and that an abrupt reversal of the previous policy wound hurt morale.

Many former military leaders have opposed the ban from the beginning. Last month, 56 retired U.S. generals and admirals came out against Trump’s directive, arguing that the ban “would cause significant disruptions, deprive the military of mission-critical talent, and compromise the integrity of transgender troops.”

Previously, two former Chairmen of the Joint Chiefs of Staff came out against Trump’s directive.

“I led our armed forces under the flawed ‘Don’t ask, Don’t tell’ policy and saw firsthand the harm to readiness and morale when we fail to treat all service members according to the same standards,” retired Adm. Mike Mullen said in July. “Thousands of transgender Americans are currently serving in uniform and there is no reason to single out these brave men and women.”

Zoe Tillman contributed to this report from Washington, DC.

New Research Shows Just How Hard It Is To Be A Young Transgender Person In Australia

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Transgender young people are at an extraordinarily high risk of suicide and more likely to be depressed or anxious, according to a new survey of transgender youth in Australia.

The survey of 859 transgender and gender diverse people aged 14–25 was conducted by the Telethon Kids Institute between February and August of 2016. It also surveyed 194 parents and guardians of young trans people.

Of the participants, 48% indicated they had attempted suicide and 80% indicated they had self-harmed at some point. Just about three quarters reported they had been diagnosed with depression, and 72% with anxiety.

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Senior researcher Dr Ashleigh Lin said the almost one-in-every-two attempting suicide statistic was "sobering" and demonstrated an "urgent need" for better-equipped services.

"These are vastly different figures to the general young population," she said. "The 2015 Young Minds Matter survey indicated that one in 40 young people aged 12-17 had attempted suicide, and one in 12 had self-harmed."

Lin stressed that there is evidence to show the poor mental health of transgender people is not caused by their gender identity, but by how gender diversity is viewed by society.

The drivers of poor mental health among transgender youth include peer rejection, issues at school, university and TAFE, and a lack of family support, the survey found. High rates of homelessness and problems with employment were also reported in the survey.

The report publishes numerous submissions about experiences of being trans.

"When I didn’t 'know' [I was trans], I was in a place of anger and confusion," one 20-year-old man wrote. "I dropped out of school after admitting that rather than go back I’d end my own life. It took a solid year of self reflection and pain to come back from that edge, but I knew who I am and could face the world again."

"I moved out of home at 16 because my family couldn’t handle the fact that I’m trans. I stayed at a youth refuge for a year," a 19-year-old non-binary trans boy wrote.

"I feel like my entire life has been a story of discrimination," said a 24-year-old woman.

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The survey also suggested more expertise and understanding of trans issues is needed among Australia's medical professionals, with 42% of respondents having accessed a medical or mental health service where the provider did not understand, respect, or have experience with gender diversity.

"The barriers trans young people face when accessing medical and mental health services often stem from a lack of awareness from service providers," said lead author Penelope Strauss.

"Trans young people told us there is a desperate need for gender services to be expanded, and for current service providers to receive training in gender diversity and the specific health needs of trans people."

Respondents also reported a much higher rate of having a diagnosis of an autism spectrum disorder than the general population — 22.5% as opposed to between 1% and 2.5%.

Parents and guardians reported lower rates of suicide and self harm than young transgender people did. Just under half reported that their children had self-harmed, and 24% had children who had attempted suicide.

"These rates are still alarmingly high; however, the differences are explained by the possibility that the parents participating in the survey are likely to be supportive of their trans child," the report reads.

"This is likely to be a protective factor against self-harm and suicide. Alternatively, parents may be unaware of their child’s behaviours or they do not wish to report these behaviours on the survey."

Fifty-five per cent of parents and guardians realised their child was trans when they were aged 13 or younger.

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The survey also asked respondents about the positive aspects of being transgender, or having a transgender child.

One 20-year-old man wrote: "I am more respectful of other people’s identity. It’s easy to swap names and pronouns for someone. I have experienced bullying, abuse, depression and anxiety and so I am able to empathise with others and understand their experiences."

"Her transition is painful because of ridiculous laws and difficult to access services but watching her grow into a beautiful young woman is an amazing privilege," the mother of a 16-year-old girl wrote.

"I feel like I look at the world from a very different perspective to others, which is an opportunity I try to be grateful for," wrote a 20-year-old woman.

The mother of a 10-year-old girl wrote "Watching my daughter transform from an anxious, fearful child who didn’t want to attend school to a happy, out-going kid who’s volunteering for leadership roles at school has been the most life-affirming experience I’ve ever had."

If you or someone you know needs help, you can call Beyondblue on 1300 22 4636, Lifeline on 13 11 14 or QLife — the national support line for LGBTI people — on 1800 184 527 from 3pm-12am.

L’Oréal Has Dropped Its First Transgender Model For A Facebook Post Calling Out White Privilege

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“Big brands are willing to profit from black women without standing up for them,” Munroe Bergdorf told BuzzFeed News.

Earlier this week, model Munroe Bergdorf made history when she was announced as the first openly transgender woman to front a L’Oréal UK campaign.

Earlier this week, model Munroe Bergdorf made history when she was announced as the first openly transgender woman to front a L’Oréal UK campaign.

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The announcement received considerable press coverage, and L’Oréal was praised for the campaign, themed around diversity.

The announcement received considerable press coverage, and L’Oréal was praised for the campaign, themed around diversity.

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However, this week the Daily Mail published details of a Facebook post Bergdorf had written after August's violent far-right rally in Charlottesville, Virginia, where she apparently called for white people to "admit their race is the most violent and oppressive force of nature on Earth".

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"Because most of ya'll don't even realise or refuse to acknowledge that your existence, privilege and success as a race is built on the backs, blood and death of people of colour. Your entire existence is drenched in racism. From micro-aggressions to terrorism, you guys built the blueprint for this s***.

"Come see me when you realise that racism isn't learned, it's inherited and consciously or unconsciously passed down through privilege.

"Once white people begin to admit that their race is the most violent and oppressive force of nature on Earth… then we can talk.

"Until then stay acting shocked about how the world continues to stay f***** at the hands of your ancestors and your heads that remain buried in the sand with hands over your ears."


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How Has Transitioning Affected Your Mental Health?

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No matter how you define your transition, we want to know how it impacted your mental health.

Transitioning can mean many different things, and it's a unique process for each individual.

Transitioning can mean many different things, and it's a unique process for each individual.

There is no one way to define or experience transitioning, and it isn't necessarily marked by one event, such as a surgery.

Sometimes, the transitioning process may be a social change (changing clothing, pronouns, and names). For others, transitioning may involve medical interventions (hormone therapy, surgery).

And of course for some individuals, the transitioning process may be a combination of these things — it really depends on the individual to decide which changes (if any) to make and when to make them.

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No matter how you do it or what your timeline is, transitioning can have a huge impact on your mental health.

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So we want to know how your mental health changed (or didn't change) as a result of the transitioning process, however you define it.

So we want to know how your mental health changed (or didn't change) as a result of the transitioning process, however you define it.

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This LGBT Center Is Hoping To Prevent People From "Falling Through The Cracks" In Houston

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A volunteer at the Montrose Center

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HOUSTON — As Hurricane Harvey began its punishing descent on Houston, Kennedy Loftin knew the LGBT community in the city would need to pull together to survive.

“In the last two storms, in Katrina and Ike, a lot of our community fell through the cracks,” Loftin, chief development officer of the Montrose Center, Houston’s largest LGBT community organization, said on Monday. That included trans people who were arrested for using the bathroom that corresponded with their gender identity at Houston shelters after fleeing Hurricane Katrina, and others who just didn’t trust institutions enough to reach out for help.

So the Montrose Center re-opened last Tuesday, as soon as it was safe to do so, and sent staffers and volunteers to all major city shelters at the height of the floods last week.

In the first 72 hours they were open, 27 people arrived in need of food and supplies, and 115 other reached out for other kinds of aid. And the volume of people coming through has increased noticeably since the city's floodwaters have receded from the city's roads, Loftin said.

“I think a lot of the Houston community just started relying on each other,” said Lorena Avillaneda, 26, who was one of a handful of volunteers at the center on Tuesday.

Lorena Avillaneda at the Montrose Center

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Two other LGBT Houstonians, Barrett White and Brittany Barreto, started collecting donations on Venmo and PayPal and buying supplies to take to shelters, raising more than $4,000 between them.

Regina Thorne-DuBois, a local drag queen who puts on weekly shows in the city, broadcast her show via livestream from her house for over nine hours while floodwaters rose outside, raising more than $3,000 for LGBT people affected by the storm.

On Saturday, the Montrose Center launched a disaster relief fund specifically for LGBT Houstonians that’s so far raised $413,000 and has attracted donations from celebrities like Ruby Rose, Jack Antonoff and Lena Dunham. The funds will go toward the center’s efforts to help those struggling after Harvey.

Eric Edward Schell, a local photographer and LGBT rights activist, is raising money for that fund through his photography, and is putting together a video with trans activists Jazz Jennings and Aydian Dowling to support it.

“The reason why we do this is because a lot of people just don’t trust other institutions,” said Loftin. “There’s a lot of fear especially in the transgender and intersectional communities. They do not feel comfortable going to religious organizations, or city institutions, or large shelters, or any place like that. They just don’t feel comfortable. So that’s the whole point of the Montrose Center, is creating that safe space for our community.”

For some of those coming to the Montrose Center this week, it’s their first point of contact with any kind of organization offering flood relief.

Nine days after the floods began, 32-year-old Brandon Williams was at the center on Monday receiving aid for the first time since evacuating his home last week. He doesn’t know a lot of people in Houston (he moved here recently from St. Louis) and he doesn’t know of any other city services that could help him.

“You just feel kind of discarded,” said Williams. “I’ve been basically homeless. It’s embarrassing to say.”

But he said he heard from acquaintances that the Montrose Center was helping people get basic supplies and find services.

Brandon Williams at the Montrose Center

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Williams, who’s gay, had to leave his house in central Houston’s Hillcroft neighborhood a few days after the storm hit, he told BuzzFeed News. He’s since been sleeping on people’s couches when he can and taking things day by day. Right now, he’s mostly concerned about eating and finding a safe place to sleep.

“The first thing I think about is how am I going to eat, if and when I can take a shower somewhere, and then where am I going to be able to sleep that night. I’m just pretty much in survival mode,” he said.

The flood took his computer, which he used to work from home as an Apple tech support adviser. His phone was also lost in the flood — he’s borrowing someone else’s temporarily.

“I can’t even describe the feeling right now, when you’re used to being able to take care of yourself. I don’t know, I don’t like it. This isn’t fun at all. This is some bullshit,” he said.

Case managers at the Montrose Center are helping people with immediate needs like food and shelter but the organization plans to support people who come to them beyond that, as they begin to put their lives back together in the coming year.

Loftin said the organization is setting aside up to $1,000 per person in immediate relief from the Harvey Disaster Relief Fund. The center usually serves 35,000 LGBT clients per year.

“We know that four months, six months from now, there are still going to be other needs,” he said, for example people who may struggle to recover from loss of income during the flood. The fund is intended to help with those long-terms needs as well.

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He said one issue for LGBT youth in particular is that 5,000 in Houston were already homeless before the storm. Others may not be living on the street but could have transitory living situations that come with being cut off from family and support networks.

“If you can’t prove that you rent or own a home, it’s practically impossible to get that assistance from FEMA,” he said.

FEMA did not immediately respond to a request for comment. The City of Houston said all Houston residents are welcome at city emergency shelters, and pointed BuzzFeed News to non-profits and Harris County, which runs the shelter at NRG Stadium. Harris County did not immediately respond to a request for comment.



If you've been impacted by the storm in Texas or have a tip about rescue, relief, government, or aid efforts, call the BuzzFeed News tipline at (646) 589-8598. Find us on Signal, email, SecureDrop, and more here.



Why Is "Good Morning Britain" Giving A "Gay Cure" Therapist Air Time?

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Twitter was the first to react. Fury and mockery roared within moments of Good Morning Britain – ITV’s flagship breakfast show – announcing its forthcoming guest.

“On next we’ll meet the man who claims he can ‘cure’ homosexuality in men. Any thoughts?” the show tweeted about Mike Davidson, head of the Core Issues Trust, a “gay cure” organisation.

Tech executive Sam Coates replied: “That putting them on TV may result in gay kids killing themselves or being harassed by their families. Can you imagine a TV show in which gay people discussed curing people of their sexuality?”

“Thoughts?” tweeted LGBT activist and writer Tom Knight, who sits on the board of Pride London. “Don’t give him air time. Countless lives have been lost through suicide. Being gay isn’t a choice, being ignorant is.” Alex Lawless, a BBC radio producer, said it was "shameful producing".

“The fact that @GMB even thinks this is a subject worth debating is offensive to gay people everywhere,” echoed Stonewall’s Wayne Dhesi, chiming with most on the social media platform who were aghast that the notion of “curing” gay people, which has been condemned by every medical and mental health organisation in Britain, including the Department of Health, and which is illegal to practise in some countries, could be up for discussion in 2017.

Complaints to Ofcom – more than 100 so far – followed the social media protests. Ruth Hunt, CEO of Stonewall, Britain’s biggest LGBT rights organisation, described Good Morning Britain’s decision to invite Davidson on as “ITV-sanctioned hate”.

Peter Ruddick, a producer of the BBC’s early morning show Breakfast, tweeted that he would “resign” if Davidson was booked to appear on his show.

The question, then, is why did Good Morning Britain, a news and current affairs programme hosted by a former BBC journalist and a former newspaper editor, and ITV, a mainstream terrestrial TV channel, deem Mike Davidson – a discredited former trainee therapist ­– worthy of air time?

Davidson’s belief that talking therapy can be used to lead an LGBT person down the path of heterosexuality – often referred to as “conversion therapy” – is rejected as dangerous and unsubstantiated by the entire medical profession.

Survivors of such “treatment” have disclosed the self-harm and suicide attempts that resulted in this intervention. Clinical psychologists studying its effects have shown that the majority (about two-thirds) suffer significantly worsened mental health, with heightened depression, anxiety, and suicidal tendencies. There is no debate about it among those who are qualified to care for the psychological wellbeing of British citizens.

There was, however, an obvious timely hook for Good Morning Britain’s item. The journalist Josh Parry had recently exposed a "gay cure” church for a local newspaper, revealing its methods, which included the use of starvation. When asked by BuzzFeed News for an explanation for the show's decision to include Davidson in the segment, and offered the opportunity to respond to those who called the decision irresponsible, a spokeswoman for the show declined to do so and said, “Dr Michael Davidson was robustly challenged by the GMB presenters about his views on homosexuality on the programme."

But a clue to the reasoning behind the decision to include Davidson as well as Parry can be gleaned from a tweet from Piers Morgan, one of the show’s hosts.

“Up next, the man who thinks you can be ‘cured’ of being gay. This could get rather lively.” The slot enabled Morgan, along with his cohost Susanna Reid, to confront the controversial guest in his characteristically bombastic style while watching social media erupt. “Prove to me you’re straight,” Morgan goaded Davidson – a demand that was not enacted.

Good Morning Britain’s ratings are a fraction of BBC Breakfast’s – recently around a million, compared with the BBC’s 6 million. But since hiring Morgan, who supports US president Donald Trump and attacks feminists as “rabid” and “men-hating”, in 2015, its output has been fuelled by controversy and helped it close the ratings gap. This is a marked contrast to the show’s predecessor Daybreak, which suffered the twin TV tragedy of plummeting ratings and scant media coverage. Following BBC producer Ruddick’s tweet, Morgan replied to him: “No wonder we’re catching you in the ratings you pompous a**e.”

Confirmation of the show’s motivation for inviting Davidson on came from its own editor, however.

Also in response to Ruddick’s tweet about resigning if his own show gave Davidson air-time, Neil Thompson replied: “....so that you could then be free to apply for a role on GMB where box office bookings are a routine part of a journalist's job.”

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In such a ratings – or "box office" – war between rival broadcasters, however, the effects of their programmes lie unexamined.

Speaking to BuzzFeed News after his appearance alongside Davidson on the show, Josh Parry said: “In an ideal world I don’t think we would give people like Mike Davidson any air time.

“I would hate somebody at home struggling with LGBT issues to watch this at home and think he [Davidson] is credible and seek his help.”

Although Parry felt Good Morning Britain’s decision to involve Davidson was perhaps “questionable”, he said it did however trigger debate about the issue, enabling education about the discredited practice, which he welcomed.

“Sometimes what TV does, especially a show like GMB, does very well is they aim to shock people,” he said. “There’s now a huge discussion about conversion therapy and about how it doesn’t work and it’s just absolute quackery.”

But the decision to invite two people with opposing views to discuss a subject whose evidence is not equally weighted remains fraught with questions for broadcasters about what constitutes “balance”.

“I think programmes like GMB tread a very fine line,” said Parry. “They have a very difficult job to do when it comes to the issue of balance.”

Parry and Davidson debating on a sofa as two disagreeing individuals when only one is supported by the medical community – by evidence – and the other is condemned by it, only constitutes balance, many would argue, if evidence is not valued.

A truly balanced argument, therefore, might comprise one in which two individuals interpret evidence differently. Broadcasters do not, for example, invite those who believe the earth is flat or that skin-bleaching products are harmless to appear on their shows.

But Good Morning Britain is far from alone in inviting Davidson on. Indeed, so popular is he with the BBC that one might suggest that Ruddick, the BBC Breakfast producer, considers his position, given his tweet.

Davidson has appeared in the last three years alone on BBC2’s Victoria Derbyshire show – the editor of which told BuzzFeed News this was necessary for the sake of balance – BBC News 24, BBC1, BBC London, BBC Radio Ulster, BBC Radio Manchester, BBC Radio Birmingham, and BBC Radio Humberside.

An array of other news outlets have also featured him, including Sky News, ITV News, LBC, and The Telegraph. When LBC’s James O’Brien gave Davidson air time, no one who opposes conversion therapy was in the studio with him.

Even Boris Johnson, a vocal proponent of free speech, when he was mayor of London, denied Davidson and his organisation a platform, preventing their adverts appearing on the side of London buses – a decision that Davidson challenged and lost in the High Court.

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Davidson was described by Parry to BuzzFeed News as a “quack”. But who exactly is he? And should broadcasters consider his credentials more closely?

Dr Mike Davidson is not a doctor of medicine but of education. He was training as a “psychodrama” therapist when he was struck off from his professional organisation after appearing on the radio in 2012 in support of attempts to make gay people straight.

“Following his participation in the recent BBC Radio Ulster programme ‘Sunday Sequence’, the British Psychodrama Association (BPA) has revoked the membership and trainee status of Dr Mike Davidson, co-director of Core Issues Trust,” the BPA said in a statement.

Its umbrella organisation, the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP), which has strongly and publicly condemned conversion therapy, added: “Mike Davidson is not a member of UKCP. He has never been a student or trainee member of UKCP and has never appeared on our register.”

Core Issues, which Davidson runs, is a small organisation in Northern Ireland that's supported by various Christian right organisations including Anglican Mainstream and the Evangelical Alliance.

It rejects the “gay cure” label given to it by mainstream observers and says instead it is a “non-profit Christian ministry supporting men and women with homosexual issues who voluntarily seek change in sexual preference and expression”.

That Core Issues prefers not to use the term “gay cure” is not unusual in the field; it is in line with most organisations in the West that seek to change the sexual orientation of LGBT people. They prefer more oblique language, assured of the public’s response to the two-word description.

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They, like other similar organisations, offer various justifications: that this “therapy” is voluntary (despite the testimonies of many individuals in the US who say they were forced by their parents), that they are merely “helping” their clients be who they want to (despite psychotherapists, psychologists and psychiatrists all condemning such “help” as collusion with a client’s dangerous and unachievable goals), and that they are doing so in the name of God.

Married with children, Davidson claims that he is no longer attracted to men. This was not the impression I had when I first met him while undercover in 2009, exposing conversion therapy for The Independent and infiltrating the organisations and individuals who practice it. Davidson snorted when he told a private meeting of conversion therapists, which I attended posing as a supporter, that he no longer considered himself to be attracted to men.

Davidson not only runs Core Issues, but, with the exception of a tiny number of volunteers, is the organisation. As a one-man band he is the only person in Britain in recent years the media calls when they want someone to advocate turning gay people straight. For how much longer, then, will a lone voice shouting from the fringes be used to drive up ratings?

This Is What You Missed At The First Day Of The High Court Case Against The Same-Sex Marriage Survey

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(L-R) Co-Chair of Australian Marriage Equality Alex Greenwich, Anna Brown, Public Interest Advocacy Centre CEO Jonathon Hunyor, lesbian mum Felicity Marlowe.

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"All Australians deserve an opportunity for love, commitment, and happiness. Gay and lesbian Australians should be able to marry the person they love."

This is how Anna Brown, the director of legal advocacy at the Human Rights Law Centre (HRLC), began a press conference outside the temporary home of the High Court of Australia in Melbourne on Tuesday morning.

The HRLC is behind one of two legal challenges to the government's postal survey on same-sex marriage, set to kick off in just seven days. The two challenges — the other is being run by the Public Interest Advocacy Centre — had a joint first day of hearings today.

"This plebiscite, this postal plebiscite, is completely unnecessary," Brown continued outside the court. "It's costly, divisive, and already causing harm to our community. The rights of any group of Australians being subject to a public vote sends a terrible message to our community."

It's a familiar argument: the pros and cons of the survey formerly known as a plebiscite has been part of Australian political discourse for over two years. The government says it's needed to fulfil its election promise of giving all Australians a say on same-sex marriage. Now, whether or not it can go ahead is a matter for the High Court.

The challenges against the survey rest on two main arguments: that the government does not have the power to spend money on the postal survey without passing legislation, and that the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) does not have the authority to collect the information the government is asking it to.

The hotly-anticipated first day of hearing on Tuesday morning drew a crowd, with a lengthy line winding around the foyer and out the door of the Commonwealth Law Courts building in the Melbourne CBD. "Court's the place to be today!" a security officer remarked as he handed back laptops and bags to the assorted people filing through the metal detector.

At 10.15am, in a packed courtroom, Ron Merkel QC, acting for the independent MP Andrew Wilkie, lesbian mother-of-three Felicity Marlowe and Pflag's Shelley Argent, started to make the case to stop the survey to the full bench of the High Court.

Nine stories down, a second packed courtroom watched the drama play out on a live feed on two TV screens.

Merkel outlined why Wilkie, Marlowe and Argent have standing, or the right to bring forward the case, saying Wilkie's status as an MP conferred standing, as well as the fact he will receive the survey form in the mail.

"A special interest that he shares with 16 million other Australians?" asked judge Virginia Bell, eliciting muted laughter in the live feed courtroom.

The judges also questioned whether Wilkie's employment can grant him standing.

Merkel said Marlowe's interest in the case goes beyond any emotional hurt that the postal survey may cause to her, and rather, it's predicated on the fact that people are being asked to cast judgement on her relationship.

"We will demonstrate how unique and offensive it is that a personal opinion is being asked on a relationship of this kind," Merkel said. The judges did not question Marlowe or Argent's standing.

To fund the postal survey, the government is using part of the Appropriations Act called the Advance to the Finance Minister, which allows spending of up to $295 million provided it is "urgent" and "unforeseen".

First, Merkel argued that the advance to the finance minister is in itself unconstitutional, and is an "impermissible" delegation of authority from the parliament to the executive.

He then addressed whether or not the postal survey itself is valid, accusing the government of conflating separate categories of "urgent" and "need".

While the government adopting the policy of a postal survey run by the ABS with a result by November 15 might constitute "need", Merkel argued, it was unreasonable for the government to say this also conferred "urgency", given it is based solely on their own timeline.

He linked "urgency" with not being able to pass a bill through the parliament, saying that the government did not attempt to get parliamentary approval for the postal survey.

"The Senate was sitting at the very time [the survey was announced] and resumed sitting yesterday," Merkel said. "There’s no reason at all why this was so urgent it couldn’t be put to a house [of parliament] to approve which what we say gives meaningful effect to the word urgent."

Finance minister Mathias Cormann defended himself on Twitter as the hearing proceeded:

Then, Merkel handed over to his junior, Kathleen Foley, to argue points around whether the ABS can conduct the survey and collect opinions. This line of argument drew several questions from the bench, some issued in a rather incredulous tone.

Foley argued that the ABS had been instructed to take what was, essentially, a vote.

"But votes have consequences," said Chief Justice Susan Kiefel.

"Not always, your honour," replied Foley, referencing Western Australia's referendum on secession in 1933, in which the state voted to withdraw from Australia but was eventually stymied by a select committee in the UK.

In response, Kiefel pointed out that the vote would have had an effect were it not for the UK committee.

After a break for lunch, Kate Richardson, acting for Australian Marriage Equality and Greens senator Janet Rice (who couldn't get a voting pair in the Senate to be there in person), argued that the postal survey could not reasonably be regarded as "unforeseen".

A significantly diminished audience in the second courtroom watched on, as Richardson accused the government of adopting an "absurd and unwarranted degree of precision" by limiting what was unforeseen to a) a postal survey; b) conducted by the ABS; c) with a result by November 15.

This argument elicited a lot of questioning from the judges, who teased out the counter-argument being put by the government — namely, that while a compulsory plebiscite run by the Australian Electoral Commission was foreseen, a voluntary survey run by the ABS was not.

But Richardson argued that knowledge of expenditure is more important than which body will spend it. Even if a postal survey run by the ABS was unforeseen, a more general notion of a plebiscite was certainly predictable — and that the government should have known ahead of time that it would cost money, she said.

Richardson also read out several press releases and statements from Cormann, in which he described the postal survey as a "plebiscite".

There were fewer quips and fewer questions as the afternoon, and Richardson's arguments, drew to an end. The court adjourned at 4.20pm.

Tomorrow, at 10.15am, solicitor-general Stephen Donaghue will put forward the case for forging ahead with the controversial survey. There could be a ruling as early as tomorrow afternoon.

Meanwhile in Canberra, Cormann announced that printing of forms for the postal survey had begun.

We'll Know The Fate Of The Same-Sex Marriage Survey Tomorrow

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After two days of intense legal argument, the fate of the government's postal survey on same-sex marriage will be revealed by the full bench of the High Court at 2.15pm on Thursday afternoon.

The decision will make or break the postal survey: granting the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) the right to go full steam ahead with distributing survey forms from September 12, or stop the ballot in its tracks and return Australia to an uneasy political stalemate on whether same-sex couples can marry.

On Wednesday, the government's top lawyer, solicitor-general Stephen Donaghue, rose to rebut the two legal challenges against the survey, heard on Tuesday and brought by the Human Rights Law Centre and the Public Interest Advocacy Centre.

The challenges contend that the government does not have the proper authority to spend money on the survey, nor does the ABS have the right to collect the information it has been asked to.

Early on, Donaghue pointed out that even if the legal challenges win on the arguments around spending money, it may not stop the survey: “Nothing put on the financial side of the case deals with the question of whether the survey can proceed.”

The ABS could technically dip into its regular budget to fund the survey — depriving the agency of funds to carry out other things. Donaghue’s statement doesn’t mean this will definitely happen, but the mere suggestion had the LGBTI advocates watching on rattled.

“We lose even if we win,” one remarked in the lunch break.

To fund the postal survey, the government is using part of the Appropriations Act called the "Advance to the Finance Minister", which allows spending of up to $295 million — provided it is "urgent" and "unforeseen".

Could the postal survey really be both of those things after years of delay and debate on this very issue? According to Donaghue, yes.

The government is arguing that the urgent need for the $122 million for the survey arose when it adopted its policy of holding a postal survey, run by the ABS, with a result by November 15.

"[Something being urgent] can arise from a need for expenditure to carry out a government policy," Donaghue told the court.

He rejected the argument of plaintiffs Andrew Wilkie, Felicity Marlowe and Shelley Argent, put by Ron Merkel QC, that urgency was conveyed either by external factors (e.g. a natural disaster) or by it being too urgent for parliament to consider the expenditure.

"'Urgent' in our submission is just an ordinary English word," Donaghue told the court, adding that the court is "not well placed" to interpret whether or not something is actually urgent in this context.

Donaghue also contended that the postal survey in its present form was unforeseen, and could not have been included in the budget as it wasn't a government policy at that time.

He argued that the unforeseen involvement of the ABS was enough to fulfil the unforeseen criteria.

(L-R) Co-Chair of Australian Marriage Equality Alex Greenwich, Director of Legal Advocacy, Human Rights Law Centre Anna Brown and Public Interest Advocacy Centre Chief Executive Officer Jonathon Hunyor.

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But in her reply, Kate Richardson, acting for Australian Marriage Equality and Greens senator Janet Rice, said Donaghue had misinterpreted her argument.

Richardson said her case was not that the postal survey should have been in the budget, but that it simply did not qualify as "unforeseen" — because it was "within contemplation" of the executive at the time the budget was prepared.

If the executive is considering a policy at the time of the budget and later makes a decision to adopt it, "we say the Advance is unavailable to them" Richardson said.

She said finance minister Mathias Cormann had erred by concluding the expenditure was unforeseen.

"Rather it was not provided for because as at May 5, the government had not made a decision about whether it wanted to have a voluntary postal plebiscite," she said. "It was still exploring means by which it would be pursued. But it was in contemplation and was being expressly discussed by ministerial colleagues."

Richardson also responded to Donaghue's earlier statement that a victory on matters of funding might not stop the survey, saying the plaintiffs would seek an injunction to stop the survey if successful on any count.

Donaghue also spent much of the morning honing in on the issue of standing, arguing that the use of the Advance is ultimately a matter between the parliament and the executive, and cannot be challenged by private citizens.

"There has been no case where private persons have been able to challenge the validity of an appropriation," he said.

Questioned about whether he accepted that plaintiff Felicity Marlowe, who is a lesbian mother-of-three, had standing because the survey form invites others to judge her relationship, Donaghue said it did "no such thing" — instead blaming the current Marriage Act for any negativity towards same-sex relationships.

"This is a form that will ask the electors who receive it whether the law should be changed to allow same-sex couples to marry," he said.

"To the extent there is any aspersion cast on the legitimacy of the [same-sex] family unit, that is a consequence of the existing law which makes a distinction."

He also argued that Andrew Wilkie does not have standing because an MP has no more interest in a matter than the constituents they represent.

Canada Has Secretly Taken In Gay Men Facing Arrest And Torture In Chechnya

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The Canadian government worked in secret for months to help gay and bisexual men escape arrest and torture in Chechnya, it was revealed last week.

Now, the organizations that made it happen have gone public, since most of the men fleeing have safely arrived.

Twenty-two men have arrived in Canada under a program created by the government in partnership with Rainbow Railroad and the Russian LGBT Network. In total, 31 people have been cleared to come to Canada.

According to Human Rights Watch, Chechen officials began abducting, interrogating, beating, and torturing men suspected of being gay, and forcing them to divulge names of other gay and bisexual men. Once released, authorities would inform the men's family's of their sexuality, pressuring the families to "cleanse" the "huge stain on family honor."

When the reports of abuse came out, Rainbow Railroad, a Canadian NGO that helps LGBT individuals flee persecution, asked the Canadian government to act. What resulted was a program, unique in the world, to move men out of safe houses in Russia and into Canada.

Canada's normal rules for refugees were bent to address the crisis, according to the Globe and Mail, which broke the news. The first Chechen arrived in June, with 20 others following.

Going public with the efforts would have put those being moved — the majority of whom are men — at risk, Kimahli Powell, executive director of Rainbow Railroad, told BuzzFeed Canada.

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"There were large concerns — there’s still concerns — about family members getting to these people," said Powell.

The safe houses were also under "constant threat," said Powell, and Russian authorities made multiple attempts to access them.

One young man who escaped to Canada told CBC that men in military clothing arrived at his workplace, put him in the trunk of a car, and took him to a police station before subjecting him to beatings and electroshock torture.

He said he was confined with other gay men for three weeks before being let go. He arrived in Canada in July, but still fears for his life.

Powell said they took the decision to go public "very, very seriously," but Rainbow Railroad felt it was time.

"We have all these new arrivals in Canada that need a lot of support, that faced traumatic situations, that don’t know the language, that are very, very young. They need community support," said Powell.

"We want to ensure these individuals have the best shot at a good life in Canada."

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Rainbow Railroad also wanted to make sure that when the news did come out, it didn't make things worse for those still in hiding.

"While we are concerned, we feel that we have established a way to help move these individuals to Canada and other counties safely that will not put people at risk," Powell said.

A Russian official has warned Canada could face consequences, according to the Globe and Mail. A spokesperson for the Russian embassy in Ottawa told the publication in an email that "any legal irregularities, if proven true, shall be duly investigated." The Canadian government has not publicly commented on the program.

Since the Globe and Mail revealed the program, Canada has drawn praise from around the globe for its efforts. While Powell said he's heartened to see the support, he wants to see that compassion extended to other vulnerable LGBT populations.

"This work for us is continuous," he said. "The fact remains that Canada is not an option for a lot of people that we move to different countries."

What's The Most Extreme Thing You've Done For Fandom?

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There's something about fandom that inspires truly extravagant acts of love.

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Maybe you're so 1DAF you hold anything that comes from the guys to be sacred.

Maybe you're so 1DAF you hold anything that comes from the guys to be sacred.

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Anything.

Was your wedding Harry Potter-themed?

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Or perhaps you loved Lord of the Rings so much that you organized your AIM buddy list into worlds from Middle Earth.

Or perhaps you loved Lord of the Rings so much that you organized your AIM buddy list into worlds from Middle Earth.

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(Hi, yes, I did that.)

We want to know! Tell us in the comments about your extreme feats of fandom, and you might be included in a future BuzzFeed post.


There's Been A Huge Rise In Hate Crimes Against LGBT People, A New Report Says

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In the last five years, the proportion of lesbian, bisexual, and gay people in the UK who say they have been the victim of a hate crime has nearly doubled, according to a major new survey by Stonewall, the LGBT rights group.

Whereas in 2012, 9% said they had experienced a homophobic or biphobic crime, today's figures, based on a survey of 5,000 people using the same sampling methods as 2012, put the number at 16%.

But it is transgender people who are being targeted the most, the report found.

In the last 12 months, 41% of trans people – or 2 in 5 – have been subjected to a hate crime because of their gender identity. So large is the proportion that when the figures for trans people are added to those of lesbian, gay, and bisexual people, 21% of LGBT people overall – 1 in 5 – have experienced a hate crime in the last year.

When these figures are compared to the number of sexual orientation or gender identity hate crimes reported to the police during a similar period, it is clear that a large proportion of LGBT people do not call the police when an incident occurs.

In 2014-15, there were just over 7,000 reports, up from 6,400 the year before. But if LGBT people were, for example, to only account for 5% of the population, that would suggest only 1 in over 450 LGBT people had experienced a hate crime – in marked contrast to the number who told Stonewall about incidents.

A visitor to 2017 Pride in London.

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LGBT people who are black, Asian, or from other ethnic minorities are also disproportionately affected by hate crimes because of their gender or sexuality, with 34% – 1 in 3 – reporting a hate crime to the Stonewall survey (as opposed to 1 in 5 white LGBT people). The area with the highest proportion of LGBT people suffering hate crimes was the North East of England, with the North West, the South West, and Yorkshire seeing the least.

In terms of how the hate crimes manifested, 26% of incidents involved unwanted sexual activity and 13% featured physical violence.

"I was assaulted by a man whilst I was holding hands with my lesbian partner. He grabbed me from behind and thrust himself into me, then verbally attacked me," said Freya, 21, one of the participants in the survey, who is from Wales.

"Someone described their intention to slit my throat and kill me," said Ava, 56. "They went on to say no court would convict them for killing 'the queer bait'."

And a trans man called James, 47, said: "I have been stalked for over two years now from an unknown person. During this time, I have received anonymous threatening letters. I've had two letters containing razorblades, one which contained a toxic substance which burnt my hands, face, and eye. I have been beaten up three times."

A police officer at Glasgow Pride 2017.

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The report also contains recommendations, calling on the Crown Prosecution Service to provide specific training to prosecutors regarding anti-LGBT hate crimes and offer specialist support to victims; the police to better monitor and record LGBT hate crimes and improve relations with the LGBT community; and the Home Office to change guidelines so hate crimes based on sexual orientation and gender identity are treated as severely as those based on race or faith.

At the launch of the report, Ruth Hunt, CEO of Stonewall, said the dramatic increase in those reporting hate crimes in their survey compared to five years ago could be explained by people being more aware of what a hate crime is, and so being more able to label and reveal it when questioned in a survey about what they experienced – or it could be that there has simply been a rise in the number of attacks. The continual rise in numbers reported to the police, meanwhile, is also difficult to pin down to either a rise in actual crimes or a rise in people more likely to report them.

"While we have come a long way in the past 25 years, it is clear there is still a huge amount of work we need to do before all LGBT people can feel safe, included, and free to be themselves in Britain today," said Hunt. "This report warns against complacency. We now need to work together to bring forward the day when no individual faces hatred or discrimination simply because of their sexual orientation or gender identity."

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Her comments come as Stonewall launches its biggest campaign in a decade, aimed both at heterosexual and cisgender people to encourage them to speak out and step up for their fellow LGBT citizens, and also at LGBT people to do the same for others within their own community.

The chief slogan that will appear on posters and adverts across the country and also feature in promotional videos and online campaigns is, "Come out for LGBT." This, Hunt told BuzzFeed News, will be the overriding message that is seen most regularly and prominently – a call to arms for allies of the LGBT community.

Other slogans will play on the "coming out" theme, with, for example, people in different professions and activities and the tagline "come out playing", showing sportspeople.

The campaign is supported by various celebrities including Gok Wan and Ana Matronic from the Scissor Sisters and includes information and advice on Stonewall's website about how heterosexual people can safely assist an LGBT person who is the victim of a hate crime or online abuse.

A Drag Scene Rises From Harvey's Destruction, And With It, A Sense Of Normality

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Regina Thorne-DuBois opening up the show at The Broad's Way.

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Regina Thorne-DuBois carefully positioned her bright red extensions in the mirror of the dressing room, her sequined polka dot dress gleaming under the lights. She was full of energy for her first drag show since Harvey's deluge shut Houston down last week.

“I’m so excited to be back,” she said. “The whole point of a drag show is to make people forget about what’s going on outside, and to just enjoy themselves inside those four walls.”

Houston’s drag scene is gradually reemerging after the storm, with a major benefit show planned next week and smaller shows like Thorne-DuBois’ popping up.

Thorne-DuBois, 22, has put on The Broad’s Way every Monday night for about four months at Michael’s Outpost, a bar in Houston’s Montrose neighborhood.

Last Monday, as southeast Texas was inundated with water from the storm, the show was canceled. Thorne-DuBois (Ryan Barrett when she’s not in drag) was stuck in her apartment on the University of Houston campus downtown and decided, after spending a few hours watching the unrelenting rain, to put on a livestream version of her show on Facebook to raise money for the storm.

“For the first two or three days I would go out and look at the water level,” she said. “A lot of really bad flooding came overnight.”

Regina Thorne-DuBois performing on Monday night.

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Through her livestreams she raised more than $3,000 for local organizations working with people affected by Harvey. One of the nonprofits she’ll be donating that money to is the Montrose Center, which serves the LGBT community in Houston.

On Monday night, she was back at Michael’s Outpost — although with a city-mandated midnight curfew still in place — with a cast of five entertainers singing and dancing to numbers about childhood and children.

Thorne-DuBois was clearly thrilled to be back in front of a live audience, cracking dad jokes and performing in a series of increasingly impressive wigs and elaborate sequined dresses.

The group of a few dozen regulars are mostly students at the University of Houston or Montrose residents who claim Michael’s as their neighborhood bar.

For many of the performers and audience members, drag shows starting up again means they have the opportunity to show their support for the people they’ve begun to consider an extended family of sorts.

Natalie E. Crawford on stage at The Broad's Way.

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“It hurts and I want to do everything I can," said Natalia E. Crawford, a 24-year-old drag queen in the show with flowing red hair and a peach-colored gown. "Sadly, I don’t have the money to give, but I can give my time and my effort, and I can work and help in any way that I can to raise money."

One regular, 21-year-old Kalairn Keaton, had a particularly rough time during the storm. While Keaton (who uses the pronouns they/them/their) was at their partner’s place outside Houston, their family’s home is in Orange County, one of the hardest-hit parts of Texas in the storm. Keaton's family, including their mother and autistic brother, have been forced to move out and most of their belongings are destroyed.

“It was awful,” they said. “I felt very helpless.”

Having Monday’s show back was comforting, they said, because it meant being back in a familiar routine with people who look out for them.

Kalairn Keaton at Michael's Outpost on Monday.

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“This is what we do every Monday. It makes me feel a little bit more normal and more human to get back into the routine," Keaton said. "Like, 'OK, things aren’t all bad. Regina still makes bad jokes. Everything’s OK.'"

After two solid hours of show tunes and wisecracks from Thorne-DuBois, the cast came together to present their combined tips and donations from the audience — just under $200 in total — to Keaton’s family at the end of the evening.

“Half of my friends on Facebook now are drag queens," Keaton said. "I kind of started doing drag. This is where my friends are, this is my family essentially."


Same-Sex Marriage Postal Survey Can Go Ahead, High Court Rules

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The full bench of the High Court has given the Australian government's postal survey on same-sex marriage a green light to go ahead, dismissing two legal challenges against the controversial ballot.

The decision means survey forms will be posted out from September 12, with a return deadline of November 7. The result of the national survey will be announced on November 15.

The court handed its decision down on Thursday afternoon in Melbourne.

The seven judges unanimously dismissed the case brought by independent MP Andrew Wilkie, lesbian mother of three Felicity Marlowe, and Pflag's Shelley Argent, ordering that the plaintiffs should pay costs.

The case brought by Australian Marriage Equality and Greens senator Janet Rice was also unanimously dismissed. The court ruled that the government had legally used the Advance to the Finance Minister to spend $122 million on the survey and ordered the plaintiffs to pay costs.

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Over the two-day hearing, lawyers argued about whether or not the government can legally spend $122 million on the survey with passing legislation through the parliament, whether the Australian Bureau of Statistics has the legal authority to collect opinions about same-sex marriage, and whether the plaintiffs had the right to bring forward the case.

On Tuesday, finance minister Mathias Cormann announced that the printing of survey forms had begun. The ABS told a senate committee on Thursday morning that $14.1 million had already been spent on the mass survey.

The survey forms will ask Australians to answer the question: "Should the law be changed to allow same-sex couples to marry?" If a "yes" vote is returned, the government will allow a conscience vote in parliament on a bill for same-sex marriage. If a "no" vote is returned, the government will continue to block any legislation for same-sex marriage.

Human Rights Law Centre director of legal advocacy, Anna Brown, called on Australians to vote "yes" outside the Commonwealth Law Courts in Melbourne. "It's time to move forward as a nation, to vote 'yes', and to deliver marriage equality for gay and lesbian people across Australia, their friends and their families," she said.

Argent delivered a message to the LGBTI community: "I want all the LGBT people in the community to know that we are supporting you... Please stand strong, because we will win this."

Independent MP Andrew Wilkie criticised the postal survey, saying he respects the decision of the court but "their decision today doesn't change the fact that this is bad government policy".

The "yes" campaign reacted immediately to the decision with a video ad:

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Meanwhile, leading "no" group the Coalition for Marriage welcomed the decision of the High Court.

"It is extraordinary that those pushing to redefine marriage went as far as taking the government to court to stop the Australian people having a say," said Marriage Alliance CEO Damian Wyld.

Catholic Archbishop of Sydney Anthony Fisher said the change to the Marriage Act would affect everybody.

"It is only fair that all Australians are allowed to make their voice heard," he said.

(L-R) Co-chair of Australian Marriage Equality Alex Greenwich, director of legal advocacy at the Human Rights Law Centre Anna Brown, Public Interest Advocacy Centre CEO Jonathon Hunyor, and director of Rainbow Families Victoria Felicity Marlowe.

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Moments after the judgment was handed down, opposition leader Bill Shorten asked prime minister Malcolm Turnbull to "actively" campaign for a "yes" vote and write a joint letter with Shorten to all Australians calling for them to vote "yes".

Turnbull said he would vote "yes", but would not say whether he would agree to the offer.

"We encourage every Australian to vote in this survey, to have their say, and as I have said in this house and in many other places, Lucy and I will be voting 'yes' and I will be encouraging others to vote 'yes', but, Mr Speaker, above all, I encourage every Australian to have their say because unlike the leader of the opposition I respect every Australian's view on this matter," he said.

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"And I thoroughly reject the way in which he has sought to vilify and demonise people who have a different view to him."

Attorney-general George Brandis told the Senate that there was "now no legal impediment to a postal survey proceeding".

"The outcome of the High Court proceedings is what the government expected and is consistent with the advice provided to the government by the Commonwealth solicitor-general, Dr Stephen Donaghue QC," he said.

"On behalf of the government, might I take this opportunity to thank and congratulate Dr Donaghue and his team for their skilful advocacy and sound advice."

That "Not In Front Of My Salad" Porno Is Back And It's Even Better Than The First

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This post is very NSFW but nothing compares to THE THINGS THAT SALAD MUST’VE SEEN!

Well because you can never have too much of a good thing, let me introduce you to Not In Front Of My Salad... Again!

Well because you can never have too much of a good thing, let me introduce you to Not In Front Of My Salad... Again!

Yes, that's the porno's actual name. The scene description is as follows: "Jaxton wants to make it up to his wife with a nice in-home massage but things don't go as planned when masseur Luke offers up some extra lip service and ass. Little does he know he's about to get caught and right in front of that salad again!"

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That's right, the woman who was just trying to eat her salad is the man's WIFE. W I F E. BONDED BY THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE.

That's right, the woman who was just trying to eat her salad is the man's WIFE. W I F E. BONDED BY THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE.

MEN

Anyway, the whole thing starts with the salad prep. Apparently the wife has decided she won't divorce her piece of shit husband, but let's not get into that just yet.

Anyway, the whole thing starts with the salad prep. Apparently the wife has decided she won't divorce her piece of shit husband, but let's not get into that just yet.

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Even Electoral Protections Wouldn't Stop Anti-Gay Same-Sex Marriage Ads

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Posters and flyers spreading extreme anti-LGBT views and falsehoods about same-sex marriage would not be stopped even if advertising protections from the Electoral Act was applied to the government's unprecedented national survey.

Since the survey on same-sex marriage was announced in August, a slew of posters and flyers denigrating LGBT people and their relationships have surfaced around Australia. Many of these have been distributed anonymously.

The survey is currently not subject to the protections in the Electoral Act. Finance minister Mathias Cormann has flagged legislation to strengthen electoral provisions for the survey. Cormann said on Thursday that he would reach out to the opposition and the crossbench parties to work on the legislation after the High Court gave the green light for the postal survey to go ahead.

But in a senate committee hearing on the postal survey on Thursday morning, the chief legal officer of the Australia Electoral Commission, Paul Pirani, confirmed that even if the Electoral Act was applied to the survey, it wouldn't affect the content of the anti-LGBT posters and flyers.

"The Electoral Act is mainly aimed at ensuring people are made aware of the source of electoral advertisements, rater than dealing with the actual contents of the electoral advertisement," Pirani said.

This has been the case for at least 40 years, the committee heard.

Neo-Nazi groups put up offensive posters around Melbourne.

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Pirani also said it was unusual to have advertising targeting ordinary citizens, as opposed to candidates for office or political parties.

Labor senator Jenny McAllister asked specifically if the posters and flyers submitted to the committee by the NSW Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby, which includes a poster allegedly distributed by a Neo-Nazi group that BuzzFeed News chose not to publish, would be in any way affected by Cormann's proposed legislation.

"If the provisions were to mirror what’s in the Electoral Act, it still wouldn’t deal with the actual content," Pirani said.

"It would deal with making sure people are aware who has authorised it, who has caused it to be published, and if a person believes they’ve ben defamed or a legal [issue] has occurred in relation to the advertisement, then they’d be able to take their own legal action, which includes that state anti-discrimination boards."

Pirani said the "most misunderstood provision" in the Electoral Act is regarding misleading and deceptive advertising, which deals with misleading people in how they cast their vote, rather than the general contents of an advertisement.

He also noted that the biggest difficulty in terms of advertising faced by the AEC is when it is distributed anonymously — like much of the postal survey material.

"Political parties generally play the game and comply,” he said.

“The main areas where we have concerns and where it’s been difficult for us to administer is where we get truly anonymous advertising.”

Speaking to Sky News earlier this week, Cormann said "expression of opinion in a political process is not something that is new".

"We have said as a Government that we want campaigners on both sides of the debate to engage in this debate with courtesy and respect," he said.

"But ultimately, whether it is an election or whether it is a survey conducted by the ABS as we have in front of us, there are certain limits to the limits you can place on freedom of speech."

The committee also heard that at least $14.1 million has already been spent on the postal survey. If it is knocked down in the High Court this afternoon, that money will not recoverable.

Australian Statistician David Kalisch was asked about comments made before the Court on Wednesday by solicitor-general Stephen Donaghue, who suggested the Australian Bureau of Statistics may not be prevented from running the survey even if the $122 million of government funding is disallowed.

Kalisch said the ABS would require funding in order to do the survey, but stopped short of saying it would need the entire $122 million.

This Vintage Lesbian Artwork Will Make You Want To Teleport To 19th Century Paris

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Lesbian Decadence: Representations in Art and Literature of Fin-de-Siècle France is a book that features a rare collection of illustrations from the "decadent period" which began in Paris in the 19th century. The original collection was compiled by French author Nicole Albert and published in 2005 under the title "Saphisme et Decadence Dans Paris Fin-De-Siécle." After a reprint in 2016 by Harrington Park Press, the book won the Goldie award for Anthology/Collections (Creative Non-Fiction) from the Golden Crown Literary Society this year. Translated by Nancy Erber and William Peniston, the reissue is an expanded edition that now includes a number of rare photographs and cartoons from the original author's private collection — many are not publicly available anywhere else.

Bill Cohen, the cofounder of Harrington Park Press — a publishing group that focuses on less-explored scholarly topics relating to the LGBT community — told BuzzFeed News in an interview that although same-sex activities were not criminalized in France at the time, "lesbians were still viewed by psychiatrists as disordered souls."

"Moralists pitied them. In popular society, however, lesbianism was flaunted," he explained. "Some paintings, no doubt, shocked the public in the early 1900s."

The cover of a special issue devoted to lesbians: Jils Garrine, Les Mesdam’messieurs, in L’Assiette au Beurre, March 2, 1912.

"Writers tried to define the cross-dressing phenomenon by using compound nouns and convoluted phrases: Woman-Man, woman masculinized by habit and tastes, or 'mesdam'messieurs' — which happened to be the title of a special issue of satirical magazine L’Assiette au Beurre devoted entirely to lesbians."

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Jay-Z's Mom Explains Why She Told Her Son She's A Lesbian

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Their relationship would make anyone “Smile.”

While every track on Jay-Z's new album, 4:44, deserves individual recognition, there was one that truly blew fans away: "Smile."

While every track on Jay-Z's new album, 4:44, deserves individual recognition, there was one that truly blew fans away: "Smile."

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In the song, Jay opened up about his mother Gloria Carter being a lesbian and why she felt she had to live in the closet for so many years.

In the song, Jay opened up about his mother Gloria Carter being a lesbian and why she felt she had to live in the closet for so many years.

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Mama had four kids, but she’s a lesbian
Had to pretend so long that she’s a thespian
Had to hide in the closet, so she medicate
Society shame and the pain was too much to take
Cried tears of joy when you fell in love
Don’t matter to me if it’s a him or her

Via Tidal

Living in the shadow / Can you imagine what kind of life it is to live? / In the shadows people see you as happy and free / Because that’s what you want them to see / The world is changing and they say it’s time to be free / But you live with the fear of just being me... Living in the shadow feels like the safe place to be / No harm for them, no harm for me / But life is short, and it’s time to be free / Love who you love, because life isn’t guaranteed.

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