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14 Gay Porn Questions For Men
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17 Moments Everyone With A Vagina Has Experienced While Masturbating
*Accomplishes one small task* TIME FOR A MASTURBATION BREAK.
When you're bored so you might as well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Like, you're not exactly horny, but you have nothing better to do, so...orgasm?
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When everyone's home and you have to be stealthy AF
Stacking a million pillows and blankets on top of yourself to mute the sound of your vibrator isn't exactly ideal, but what else are you going to do, let everyone listen to the dulcet sounds of your orgasm?
And when no one's home so you can actually make some damn noise for once
Long, uninterrupted stretches of time to yourself are rare and sacred when you don't live alone. And tbh, the only real way to celebrate that is to turn up the volume on your porn and actually let out a moan for once.
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When you wind up thinking about someone you'd definitely rather not think about
No matter what fantasy you start out with, every once in a while someone completely random pops up and hijacks your fantasy, and THERE YOU ARE, ACCIDENTALLY MASTURBATING TO SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IN A SEXUAL CONTEXT BEFORE.
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8 Subtle Red Flags Your Date Is Secretly A Jerk
Sneaky sneaky.
They put their phone on the table.
This could POSSIBLY be OK if they explain that they are an ER doctor on call or that if they miss a certain bizarre phone call a puppy will die, but other than that, there is no need for that phone to be on the table during your date.
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They're rude to the waiter.
This probably won't be as straight forward as flicking them off, like in the picture above. But if they aren't saying "please" or "thank you" or are just being generally unkind to the waiter, you can bet they aren't going to be kind to you for very long either.
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They don't ask any questions about you or relay questions back to your questions.
You didn't go on a date to interview someone for a position in your pants, you went on a date to interview each other for positions in each other's pants.
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Furthermore, instead of actually listening when you speak they only look like they're waiting to respond with something they want to say about themselves.
Don't get me wrong being excited to talk in a conversation is great, but if they're talking over you to just talk obsessively about themselves they probably won't make a very thoughtful partner in the long run.
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FYI, You Can Buy A Fidget Spinner Butt Plug
“Available in three sizes to fit any attention span.”
People can't stop talking about fidget spinners, so it was only a matter of time before someone found a way to stick one up their butt.
BEHOLD, THE FIDGET SPINNER BUTT PLUG. HERE TO GIVE NEW MEANING TO "SIT AND SPIN!"
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I, for one, am grateful that this news comes to us in the form of a properly-shaped butt plug, rather than a story of someone getting an actual fidget spinner stuck up their bum.
Flared base? Check. Smooth texture? Check. Butt-safe stainless steel? Check. This can go up your butt! (Well, probably. Depends on the manufacturing quality. WE ARE NOT OFFICIALLY ENDORSING THIS. DON'T SEND US YOUR HOSPITAL BILLS IF ANYTHING GOES AWRY.)
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Here to help keep that A$$ focused, we present to you our custom-made fidget spinner butt plugs! That's right, help combat ADHD and get stuff done with your very own booty spinning adventure toy!
Available in 3 sizes to fit any attention span, get yours today and get $hit done!
More details to follow soon, novelty use only, don't do anything stupid lol
So...I have a few questions.
Are people actually buying this? (THEY ARE.) Is it physically possible to spin it when it's in, or do your butt cheeks get in the way? Will it actually make certain people less distracted in bed? What kind of creative contorting does it take to reach back and spin it yourself? If you're ass-up and spinning it, will you look like a tiny helicopter? Is that anyone's kink out there?
IF YOU KNOW THE ANSWERS TO THESE QUESTIONS AND MORE, LET ME KNOW IN THE COMMENTS.
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Here's How To Get The Rainbow Pride Reaction On Facebook That All Your Friends Have
During any normal month, there are five reactions on Facebook: Like, Heart, Haha, Wow, Sad, and Angry. But in honor of Pride month, Facebook's rolling out a new one: a rainbow.
The social media network announced in a post on Friday, "We believe in building a platform that supports all communities. So we’re celebrating love and diversity this Pride by giving you a special reaction."
June is traditionally when LGBTQ people across the world celebrate Pride. The rainbow flag takes on a poignant tone this year, though: Gilbert Baker, the activist who created the rainbow flag in 1978 at Harvey Milk's request, died in March 2017. He described himself as "the gay Betsy Ross," according to his New York Times obituary.
People were excited and planned to make the most of the time they had with the emoji.
According to Facebook, it's available for all of Pride Month.
But not everyone on Facebook has been able to immediately access the rainbow reaction.
And people, especially LGBTQ people, were a bit confused.
Don't stress. Here's how to get start reacting with rainbows on Facebook asap:
- Log into Facebook.
- Like the LGBTQ@Facebook page.
- Voila! You're now able to react to whatever you want with a rainbow!
Rainbows for everyone! Happy Pride.
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People Are Dressing Up As The Babadook For Pride And It's Beautiful
BABASHOOK OVER THESE BABALOOKS.
As you've ~probably heard~, the Babadook, from the 2014 horror film The Babadook, is this year's latest and greatest GAY ICON.
And honestly, we are soooo here for it.
Truly:
Instagram: @your_aesthetic_boi
Given his newfound status as a queer icon, the 'Dook had to make a strong showing at this year's Pride parades.
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The 50 Best Gay Bars In The US, According To Yelp
Bottoms up!
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Let's be real: Gay bars are the best place to spend a night out.
They've always been safe havens for the LGBT community to express themselves fully and comfortably. They represent inclusivity and diversity. Oh, and they're fun as hell. That's why we asked Yelp for the most popular gay bars in the US, which were measured using an algorithm that looks at the star rating and number of reviews for each business.
So, here they are — the 50 best gay bars to grab a drink, dance with friends, and celebrate Pride, in order by state.
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Bar 1, Phoenix, Arizona
"My partner and I have been coming to Bar 1 for several years since moving from LA. We've been to many gay bars in both LA and SD and compared to those bars, Bar 1 is our #1 gay bar." —Yelper Wayne V.
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When You're Too Scared To Ask Out Your Crush
So much sweat!
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Should You Stick This Up Your Butt?
Are you an authority on anal or that person who goes to the ER with something weird stuck up their butt?
Obviously, every body and butt is different, so what toy is suitable for one person might be ~too much to handle~ for another. But when it comes to using toys and objects anally, there are certain factors that reduce injury, abrasion of the anal tissue, and risk of it getting stuck or lost up there.
So for the sake of this quiz, we're not asking if you CAN stick something up your butt, we're asking if you SHOULD. Also, assume that in each case, proper safety and protective measures (lube, condoms when necessary, etc.) are taken.
All information sourced from Charlie Glickman, PhD, sex educator and author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure.
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Women Are Loving That Sex Joke In "Wonder Woman," And Here Are Even More Reasons To Love It
It’s the sex joke about lesbian sex/lady masturbation.
If you're a woman who saw Wonder Woman, you probably laughed at the best joke in this movie, which is about ~bodily pleasure~.
I will reprint it here for your amusement:
Wonder Woman: "You refer to reproductive biology? ... Yeah, I know. I know all about that."
Wonder Woman's male helper Steve: "I refer to that and, you know, other things."
WW: "The pleasures of the flesh."
Steve: "Do you...know about that?"
WW: "I've read all 12 volumes of Clio's treatises on bodily pleasure."
Steve: "All 12, huh? Did you you bring any of those with you?"
WW: "You would not enjoy them. ... They came to the conclusion that men are essential for procreation but when it comes to pleasure, unnecessary."
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The crux: Men are essential for procreation but when it comes to pleasure, unnecessary!
I laughed! But alas, I have a curious heart, and sitting in a theater in Los Angeles, I couldn't laugh without asking myself: Who is Clio, and where are these volumes? Thus began my investigation.
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Discovery 1: Clio is not real.
I was ready to order all 12 volumes on Amazon, but they do not exist.
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Thanks, Wikia entry on the Amazon scribe named Clio!
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This Powerful Photo Series Shares People's Personal Stories Of The Pulse Nightclub Shooting
“We were just enjoying the music.”
The "Dear Orlando" photo series, released today on the one-year anniversary of the Pulse nightclub shooting, features survivors, family members, and first responders giving their own accounts of what happened, and how their lives have changed in the wake of that night.
The series was created by Dear World, a group that shares people's personal stories through powerful portraits, including words written on the subjects’ skin. Most notably, the group featured survivors of the Boston Marathon bombing.
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The black-and-white images, taken by photographer Daymon Gardner, each feature one sentence from an individual's personal account. The stories come from inside the nightclub, from behind the closed doors of countless hospital rooms, and from the homes where families waited for news about their loved ones.
In his interview, Orlando police officer Omar Delgado described cell phones going off all around him as he entered the nightclub.
"Phones start ringing all over the place. The one that gets me is the one iPhone that was next to my feet that just kept going and going and going," he said. "I would see the caller ID, the picture. I was like, 'I know this person's never going to be able to pick up this phone again,'" he said.
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"It took about two hours of a one-on-one interview before the Pulse subjects made it in front of a camera," the Founder of Dear World, Robert X. Fogarty, told BuzzFeed News.
"Sometimes they cried, sometimes they laughed, but each one, without a shadow of cliche, told us that they get up each day, put one foot in front of the other, and no longer take life for granted," Fogarty said of the interviews, which took place over four days in May.
Pictured above is Mina Justice, whose son, Eddie Justice, was killed in the attack. She described going straight to her son's apartment after hearing about the shooting.
"I went to his apartment. I went in and I was like, he's here, I see shoes," she recalled. "I wasn't there more than ten minutes and the FBI called."
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Fogarty refers to the sentences on the subjects' bodies as "the lede to the story only they can tell." The messages act as an invitation to learn more about each person's personal story, he explained.
"When things like this happen and they don't happen to us personally we all watch in awe," said Fogarty. "The people it happens to become characters in a narrative that they can't control and never asked for."
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Janet Mock Surprised Some Of Her Biggest Fans And Everyone Cried, Basically
“Do we have tissues up in this bitch?”
Janet Mock is an activist, writer, and all-round queen — so it's no surprise she has some pretty big fans.
We invited three of those fans to stop by the BuzzFeed office, telling them we needed people to discuss their biggest role models on camera for a BuzzFeed video.
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(Obviously, they had plenty to say about the one and only Janet Mock.)
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But it just goes to show you shouldn't trust anyone these days — they had no idea Mock was waiting just outside the room, ready to surprise them.
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The Next Season Of “Orange Is The New Black” Might Feel Like An Entirely Different Show
Scene from Orange Is the New Black Season 5 finale.
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By the time Orange Is the New Black Season 5 reaches its closing moments, a riot at Litchfield has left two guards dead, the prison in shambles, and the future of every character up in the air.
“It felt very important to us that if we were going to commit to doing a riot that you can't go back from that,” Lauren Morelli, who wrote the season finale, told BuzzFeed News. “In the real world, prisoners would not riot and then everything would be fine.”
Actually, nothing is fine at Litchfield. As a CERT team takes back the prison and forcibly removes the inmates, the show’s carefully formed families are literally torn apart: Flaca (Jackie Cruz), Maritza (Diane Guerrero), Lorna (Yael Stone), and many more are randomly placed on several buses headed for destinations unknown.
But one cluster remains carefully hidden from the brutish group of officers as they punch, shock, and gas their way through the halls: Frieda (Dale Soules), Suzanne (Uzo Aduba), Black Cindy (Adrienne C. Moore), Taystee (Danielle Brooks), Red (Kate Mulgrew), Piper (Taylor Schilling), Alex (Laura Prepon), Nicky (Natasha Lyonne), Gloria (Selenis Leyva), and Blanca (Laura Gómez) are holed up in the abandoned swimming pool in the basement.
Soules, Aduba, Moore, Brooks, Mulgrew, Schilling, Prepon, Lyonne, Leyva, and Gómez
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Their secluded spot doesn’t stay secret for long and the final frames of the season show the women joining hands just as the CERT team sets off an explosion that decimates their makeshift barricade and sends shrapnel flying. And with 10 of the most significant Orange Is the New Black characters staring down their would-be assailants, the finale suddenly cuts to black.
It’s one of the show’s biggest cliffhangers to date, and it's clear Orange Is the New Black will never be the same.
“I think this thing is going to change — big-time. We're going someplace else,” Mulgrew told BuzzFeed News. “It was extremely live or die; drama at its most heightened. Who knows what's going to happen when the dust settles — I know nothing — but I don't think everyone is going to survive that last moment. They may initially, but I think there will be repercussions. There were 10 of us holding hands ... I think someone will get hurt. I don't know who.”
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Though she’s in the dark as to what journey awaits Red in Season 6, Mulgrew believes the choice to close out this season on those 10 characters is a sign of what’s to come. “I think that signifies, perhaps, a more concentrated view going into Season 6,” she said.
OITNB creator Jenji Kohan is no stranger to blowing up the world her characters live in; she ended the third season of Weeds by having Mary-Louise Parker’s character burn down her picture-perfect neighborhood and go on the lam with her family.
“I think we always try to be responsible — primarily because it's going to be us who is stuck with whatever we do,” Morelli said with a laugh. “So we try to be really responsible about, Okay, if we make this decision, what happens next? And of course, Jenji is such an incredible leader in terms of making sure we're thinking ahead, but she's also such a badass, such a renegade, and she's so willing to just leap. She's so willing to be like, 'Let's take the big swing and we'll figure it out,' versus, 'Let’s make sure we have a good plan in place.' I think it's really exciting to get to watch these women who have been powerless for four seasons suddenly have the power and what are the ramifications of that.”
Of course, Morelli wouldn’t speak to the plan for Season 6, but she did offer up this small tease: “I think it's going to be different in a really great way. This ending allows us to explore a lot more of prison that we haven't seen yet.”
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Literally Just Some Pictures Of Kristen Stewart And Stella Maxwell Lookin' Cute And Bein' Cute
HAPPY PRIDE.
So anyway, here they are!
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Holding hands!
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And walking!
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23 Pictures That Show Gender Rules Were Always Meant To Be Broken
Two couples stage a double wedding proposal in 1912.
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Two women in Navy uniforms pose for a studio portrait, circa 1920s.
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Teddy Caisser performs as his persona Mademoiselle Sousette, in France, circa 1920.
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Left: A person shows off their dress in 1910. Right: Vesta Tilley, an English male impersonator and singer who gained fame during World War I, sits for a portrait in 1904.
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A group of men in drag perform in 1920.
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Two women are married by a clergyperson, circa 1912.
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Two women share a smoke dressed in the masculine fashions of the era, circa 1955.
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A group of people in men's suits pose for a portrait at a Chicago billiards bar in March 1915.
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Four couples pose for a photo, circa 1910.
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Bebe Daniels dresses as a swashbuckler in the 1927 silent film Senorita.
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A group of people dressed as men smoke, drink, and play cards while having their photo taken in Chicago, circa 1920.
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Three people show off their finest skirts, circa 1905.
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Two people dressed as men work in a woodshop, circa 1900.
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Customers wearing dresses and necklaces have a drink at the Eldorado nightclub in Berlin in 1929.
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A pair wearing dresses pose for a portrait alongside a person in a suit, circa 1900s.
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A group of people pose for a photo during a party in 1915.
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Four people in long gowns clown around in a photographer's studio during the 1900s
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Dr. Ethel Rice, a Chicago physician, poses for photographers after being arrested in 1920 for attempting to gain entrance to a "Men Only" lecture.
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The all-women Black Crook theater company drink champagne in formal attire in 1893.
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A pair pose in the road after swapping each other's clothes, circa 1920.
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A group of friends pose in their favorite outfits, circa 1910.
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A group of people in drag make their way down a Philadelphia street in the 1920s.
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Want more? Check out more pictures celebrating LGBT Pride Month at Getty Images.
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People Can't Handle This Couple's Truly Inspiring Love Story
“Falling in love with another black man was scary in ways neither of us could have ever imagined.”
Nick Gilyard, 25, and his boyfriend Dominic Spence, 27, have known each other since they were teenagers.
They were recently featured on thewaywemet Instagram account, which chronicles couples' (usually very adorable) love stories.
"Dominic and I met as teenagers. We went to different high schools but they were close in proximity, so we had a lot of mutual friends," their story begins. "High school was also the time period in which we both came out to our families, although at separate times and unknowingly of each other's personal journeys."
According to the caption, the couple's first date lasted for several hours until the bar closed down. They would endure seven years of long distance in several different cities before finally landing together. Spence proposed during a visit to London in 2015 — Gilyard said yes.
Dominic and I feel lucky to have found love at such a young age. However, falling in love with another black man was scary in ways neither of us could have ever imagined. It forced us to face the very real resistance from society for being not only homosexuals but black men as well. We had to confront the stereotypes of being largely defined as uneducated, disloyal, untrustworthy, and unreliable individuals. But together we chose to rise above those prejudices and rewrite our own story- one of inspiration. We want others to see that our union is marked by achievement, love, friendship, respect, and unconditional support. We hope to encourage other black and brown men and boys everywhere to be true to who they are. And when they find love in each other's eyes, to know that their love is just as strong and beautiful as anyone else's.
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LGBT Parents, Tell Us About Your Experiences With Parental Leave
Whether you’re a new parent or just welcomed your fifth, adopted or created your family in any other way — we want to hear from you!
Bringing home a new child can be a joyous, stressful, and positively overwhelming experience.
For many queer families, the road to becoming a parent is already more complicated than usual. The uncertainty of parental leave can be an added toll.
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We want to hear about your personal experience with taking leave to care for a new child.
Whether you're a single parent, part of a couple, or parenting in a dynamic of your own creation, you may have overcome some hurdles to bring a new addition into your home. So what happens once they arrive?
Whether you welcomed a newborn or adopted an older child or teenager, you probably needed time to settle everyone in.
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Were you given paid leave or no leave at all? How did you cope if leave simply wasn't an option?
Did you have a partner to lean on or who was given leave themselves?
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